I had been debating about starting hormones for so long that I wanted to make it easy on myself to stop them if I didn’t like what happened, or if taking them didn’t make me feel any better.

I was also a little worried about her reaction because I had a friend in college whose girlfriend broke up with him because she did not want to date “a man” and was a “lesbian.” I figured that because we were apart, dealing with that kind of reaction long-distance would be harder than if I could tell her in person.

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She loved me for who I was, not my gender or what I had in between my legs.

Honestly, if I could go back and repeat that moment, I wouldn’t change a thing. Simon: I began the transition process about six weeks before I told my girlfriend at the time. First, I wanted to make sure that starting hormones felt “right” to me before I told a lot of people, particularly those with a much stronger vested interest in my gender/identity, like my girlfriend and my family.I’m fabulous, but I look very, very much like a man.On the other hand I get why most straight woman would not want to date me.When it comes to being with a trans person support is the most important thing. With a transition all your relationship go though a transition, and sometimes lovers become friends.I understand why a lesbian would not want to date me.She took it well and didn’t seem too concerned at first.